Improve your sexual quality of life today!
Recover from sexual trauma, anxiety, fear, and shame!
Romance and Reality utilizes holistic sex education and somatic coaching to work with you to achieve the communication and intimacy you desire in your relationship(s).
I work collaboratively with established providers to connect the gaps often found between traditional mental health therapy and physical therapy practices.
In service to the community, we provide ethical, inclusive, and confidential care with accessible options to fit every income.
I am Bailey Barmettler, CSE, CSSE, and I started Romance and Reality to tell you that sex doesn’t have to be a struggle!
Challenges I Address
Couples seeking ways to enhance their intimacy, passion, and confidence
Difficulty experiencing pleasure or desire
Recovering from sexual trauma
Empowering voice, choice, boundary-setting, and communicating authentic consent
Exploring who you are as an erotic being/ deciphering your sexual identity
Learning the anatomy of arousal
Exploring the Intersection of sex and Spirit
Changing habitual sexual roles or scripts
Learning the art of erotic touch/ massage for lovers
Being sexual with chronic pelvic pain, vulvodynia, or constrictions that inhibit sexual function (pregnancy, post-partum, ED, etc.)
Trauma-informed touch, including genital unwinding, genital mapping, & pelvic/genital scar tissue release
Experiencing & learning techniques for expanded arousal, or extended and multiple orgasms
Being sexual with a disability or medical complications
Exploring power and surrender as aspects of sex play and pleasure
Building up basic Tantric, kink, fetish, BDSM, and other sensual knowledge and skills
Exploring erotic possibilities as a transgender person, or someone who wants to play with gender
Holistic pelvic & sexual care resources based upon current science that address physical, emotional, psychological, sexual, & spiritual wellbeing
Try a session for FREE to see if I’m right for you!
There’s no commitment, pressure, or obligation.
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