Romance and Reality
Sex Education and Somatic Coaching
Questions Are Welcome Here!
Welcome to Romance and Reality, where we believe it is a human right for all people to have access to ethical, inclusive, holistic, sex-positive education. Your questions and curiosities are welcome here!
Our sexual health is a vital component of overall wellness, yet it is left out of mainstream education and healthcare. Due to this, it is common for us to struggle in reaching our full sexual potential. You are not alone!
Struggles often result from a wide variety of normal experiences. Too often, people are left to face these challenges without a trustworthy guide to a more satisfying future. (Tip: Internet searches & porn fail at doing the job here!)
I’m Bailey Barmettler, B.A., certified sex educator & somatic coach. I believe everyone deserves the romance they desire, as well as, the skills for when reality gets in the way! I started this business to let you know that sex doesn’t have to be a struggle!
If you suspect you could improve your sexual experience, schedule a free consultation with me or check out our monthly virtual events.
“I highly recommend working with Bailey! She did such an amazing job making me feel comfortable and heard. Her insights about intimacy and communication with my partner were so helpful. She really wants to empower you to create the intimacy you dream of. This is a realm that often gets sidelined in relationships, but it’s so essential to address!” ~ Lisa & Joe
The Romance and Reality Community
Romance and Reality hosts various virtual events monthly that currently range from FREE to a maximum of $20 per attendee! How can these rates stay so affordable and accessible for the community? Through human kindness! An optional link will be provided at the end of our events for any gracious supporters to feel like contributing to a “Pay-it-Forward” approach to funding the business mission. Some common themes for events include:
- Teaching various ages on how to navigate boundaries and consent
- Unwinding shame and realigning mindsets towards pleasure positivity
- Keeping the romance alive in a long term relationships
- Empowering parents on how to talk to kids about sexuality
- Sexual trauma survivor somatic skills building & support
- …plus much more!
Romance and Reality events are an affordable, informative, and FUN way to learn! Always hosted in a safe space where ALL are welcome & can choose to change their zoom name to stay anonymous. Please see our upcoming events page for more information!
“Bailey was caring and kind-hearted. She was easy for my husband to open up to, which I was the most worried about. Her information made sense and helped us to understand how it applied in the bedroom. We have some things to still work out, but as we practice our sexual communication skills our time in bed together has become more inviting.” ~ Michelle C.
Challenges I May Help With
Some common challenges may include:
- Difficulty reaching orgasm
- Couples seeking ways to enhance their sexual intimacy or confidence
- Reclaiming sexuality after childbirth, surgery, cancer, illness, etc.
- Recovering from sexual traumas locked in the body’s memory
- …so many more!
Clients often feel alone in facing these challenges, but that is no longer true! These are normal experiences that may improve with education & coaching. To see more of what I can help check out my services page.
“Extremely informative pleasure mapping session. My partner and I really got to know each other better. It could be broken up into two or three sessions and still have good results. I would definitely do this again and am already suggesting to my friends that they try it out.” ~ Ben
Stay curious! š
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