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Relationship You Want!

Service Offerings & Prices

  • Romance and Reality, Bailey Barmettler, Certified, Holistic, Somatic, Sex Educator, Sexologist, Sex Therapy, relationship coach, love addiction, codependency, trauma, PTSD, intimacy

    Free Consultation

    Let's make sure that my services align with what you are seeking: Individuals, couples, poly triads.

    45-minute maximum for free. No commitment, just an informative conversation to make sure you feel confident and comfortable moving forward. In-person, virtual, or by phone.

  • Romance and Reality, Bailey Barmettler, Certified, Holistic, Somatic, Sex Educator, Sexologist, Sex Therapy, relationship coach, love addiction, codependency, trauma, PTSD, intimacy skill building.

    Somatic Sex Education

    Together, we will aim to meet your self-defined intentions and goals. Individuals, couples, poly triads. Virtual or in-person.

    90-minute minimum at tiered pricing rates listed below. Option to increase in 30-minute increments. Light refreshments provided.

  • Romance and Reality, Bailey Barmettler, Certified, Holistic, Somatic, Sex Educator, Sexologist, Sex Therapy, relationship coach, love addiction, codependency, trauma, PTSD, intimacy skill building, somatic bodywork.

    Somatic Bodywork

    Relax as I guide you through somatic practices that build safety, unwind trauma, and restore pleasure. Individuals, couples, poly triads. In-person only.

    90-minute minimum starts at $300, with the option to increase in 30-minute increments. Light refreshments provided.

  • Community, self-acceptance, expressing authentic boundaries, vulnerability, connection, authentic relating.

    Community Events

    Experience a community that emphasizes self-acceptance, expressing authentic boundaries, leaning into vulnerability, and holistically exploring connection.

    In-person only. Please reach out to learn more and RSVP. Light refreshments and snacks are provided.

  • PLEASE READ: Somatic Sex Education and Somatic Bodywork are different therapeutic practices, it is NOT SEX WORK!!!

    If a client makes a suggestion or request to include sex work, then they will be asked to leave immediately and without a refund. I have the right to refuse service.

    To maintain these ethical standards, tips or gifts over $100 will NOT be accepted.

  • Romance and Reality, Bailey Barmettler, Certified, Holistic, Somatic, Sex Educator, Sexologist, Sex Therapy, relationship coach, love addiction, codependency, trauma, PTSD, intimacy skill building, somatic bodywork, Workshops, Trainings

    Custom Presentations, Workshops, & Trainings

    Custom-made presentations, demonstrations, workshops, and training to fit your needs! Handouts, pens, and a basket of swag/goodies are provided at no additional cost.

    Available virtually or in-person (travel rates may apply). Schedule a free consultation or reach out to learn more.

Pricing Tiers

Per 90-Minute Somatic Sex Education Session:

Community Care Rate

$125

For those currently experiencing financial hardship or economic stress.

Standard Rate

$165

For those whose financial situation feels stable and manageable.

Per 90-Minute Somatic Body Working Session:

Pay-It-Forward Rate

$200

For those with financial comfort who wish to help extend my care to those who need it most.

* Insurance is not currently accepted. A monthly superbill itemized as "Health Education” is available upon request, allowing you to seek reimbursement directly from your insurance provider.

Body Working Rate

$300

With the option to extend in 30-minute increments for a deeper experience.

Book a FREE consultation to see if I’m right for you!

No commitment, no pressure, just an informative conversation to make sure you feel confident and comfortable moving forward.

Environment & Accommodations

  • We can meet virtually via telehealth or in person. In-person sessions are preferred, as reading body language plays an important role in somatic work.

  • In-person sessions take place in a calm, homey setting. While my cats are not permitted in the session space, light cat allergens may still be present for those with severe allergies.

  • Each appointment meets you where you’re currently at — We'll discuss what brought you here and determine a plan that best aligns with your intentions, with you directing the focus of each session.

  • Sessions may include elements of education, counseling, and somatic awareness practices. With your consent, and only when appropriate for your learning, sessions may also include hands-on somatic teachings. Your boundaries are respected at all times!

Romance and Reality, Bailey Barmettler, Certified, Holistic, Somatic, Sex Educator, Sexologist, Sex Therapy, relationship coach, love addiction, codependency, trauma, PTSD, intimacy skill building, somatic bodywork, Workshops, Trainings

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