About Romance and Reality…

Business Founder, Certified Holistic Sex Educator, Certified Somatic Sex Educator & Body Worker, Certified Cuddlist

I am drawn to this work because much of my own life story has involved a journey to heal past sexual traumas stored within my soma. Throughout this journey, I was aware of the millions of others who struggled in similar ways, yet I felt alone due to the lack of professionals who address personal sexual satisfaction down to the very touch.

As I overcame my somatic barriers and felt the numerous rewards radiate throughout my life, an overwhelming call to solve the felt vacancy of professional pleasure educators took over. Everyone deserves access to the endless pleasures that their body holds!

I have since made it my mission to acquire the most recent & relevant resources to share in hopes of primarily assisting struggling couples & sexual trauma survivors in reclaiming their sensual quality of life.

Hearing the plea for effective sex education, intimacy coaching, and somatic trauma reprocessing; I have intentionally built my education and profession around providing some of the highest quality and most holistic sex education available across Northern Colorado!

Try a session for free to see if I’m right for you!

There’s no commitment, pressure, or obligation.

Education and Credentials

Certified Holistic Sex Educator (CSE) - Institute for Sexual Education and Enlightenment, 2022

Certified Cuddlist - Professional Cuddle Therapy, 2022

Certified Somatic Sex Educator & Body Worker - Institute of Somatic Sex Educators, 2021

Wheel of Consent Completion Certificates - School of Consent, 2020 & 2021

BA in Psychology, minor in Conflict Management - Colorado State University, 2011

My professional journey has included running a successful pelvic floor physical therapy practice, working as a team member in various wellness settings, and owning my own small business since 2019. As of June 2023, I have acquired over 2000 logged hours in my field.

Testimonials

  • "Bailey has been truly patient, kind, supportive, and successful in helping me work through my PTSD on many levels. For anyone thinking of facing facing their traumas and fears, know that addressing them is the key to coming to terms and to moving forward. You wont be alone in doing this with Bailey. She is a caring and knowledgeable partner to guide you toward healing. I am so grateful for having met her, and for her assistance. She's truly changing my life for the better."

    ~ A.J. ~

  • “I highly recommend working with Bailey! She did such an amazing job making me feel comfortable and heard. Her insights about intimacy and communication were so helpful. She really wants to empower you to create the intimacy you dream of! This is a realm that often gets sidelined in relationships, but it’s so essential to address.”

    ~ Lisa and Joe ~

  • "The experience of somatic pleasure mapping was very positive, and I will recommend it to others! I was amazed by everything that I learned about myself. It is definitely something I would repeat, as I feel like I have acquired access to deeper parts of myself than I was aware of. I can also see the therapeutic benefits for women of all kinds. It has helped my partner and I to deepen our intimacy and maximize our pleasure."

    ~ Nat ~

  • "Bailey was caring and kind-hearted. She was easy for my husband to open up to, which I was the most worried about. Her information made sense and helped us to understand how it applied in the bedroom. We have some things to still work out, but as we practice our sexual communication skills our time in bed together has become more inviting."

    ~ Michelle ~

  • "Extremely informative pleasure mapping session. My partner and I really got to know each other better. I would definitely do this again and am already suggesting to my friends that they try it out."

    ~ Ben ~