About Romance and Reality…

Bailey Barmettler

Business Founder, Certified Holistic Sex Educator,

Certified Somatic Sex Educator & Body Worker

I am drawn to this work because much of my own life story has involved a journey to heal past sexual traumas stored within my soma. Throughout this journey, I was aware of the millions of others who struggled in similar ways, yet I felt alone due to the lack of professionals who address personal sexual satisfaction down to the very touch.

As I overcame my somatic barriers and felt the numerous rewards radiate throughout my life, an overwhelming call to solve the felt vacancy of professional pleasure educators took over. Everyone deserves access to the endless pleasures that their body holds!

I have since made it my mission to acquire the most recent & relevant resources to share in hopes of primarily assisting struggling couples & sexual trauma survivors in reclaiming their sensual quality of life.

Hearing the plea for effective sex education, intimacy coaching, and somatic trauma reprocessing; I have intentionally built my education and profession around providing some of the highest quality and most holistic sex education available across Northern Colorado!

Education and Credentials

Certified Holistic Sex Educator (CSE) - Institute for Sexual Education and Enlightenment, 2022

Certified Somatic Sex Educator & Body Worker - Institute of Somatic Sex Educators, 2021

Wheel of Consent Completion Certificates - School of Consent, 2020 & 2021

BA in Psychology, minor in Conflict Management - Colorado State University, 2011

My professional journey has included running a successful pelvic floor physical therapy practice, working as a team member in various wellness settings, and owning my own small business since 2019. As of June 2023, I have acquired over 2000 logged hours in my field.

Try a session for free to see if I’m right for you!

There’s no commitment, pressure, or obligation.

Presentations, Workshops,

Demonstrations, Trainings

“Somatic Practices for Couples that Increase Safety, Curiosity, and Sensual Connection“ - AASECT Mile High Chapter, June 2024

“Hidden Doorways to Sexual Healing: A Demonstration of Somatic Sexological Body Working for Therapists” - AASECT Mile High Chapter, April 2024

“The Healing Powers of Pleasure” - Love Your Brain, CO Spring Retreat 2024

“Common Libido Blockers for Women” - Insight Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy, April 2022

I deeply enjoy facilitating interactive, educational, embodied, and inspirational events. Let me know how I can customize a lesson to meet your needs, today!

Presentation Testimonials

  • "Her delivery is on point! Bailey knows how to address normally taboo topics in a relaxed a humorous fashion. She engaged the audience with questions, projected herself well, and maintained a great pace throughout. The information was rich, useful, and digestible. It was obvious she took her audience and their needs/desires into consideration, as the majority of this audience is a caretaker for or lives with a tramatic brain injury. I could not recommend her more!"

    ~ Alicia P. ~

    “The Healing Powers of Pleasure” - Love Your Brain, CO Spring Retreat 2024

  • "Great presentation and resources! Now I can see the opportunity for more collaborative client efforts and a more embodied way of working holistically with sexual issues. Hope to see you continue these offerings! :)"

    ~ Mark Cunningham ~

    “Hidden Doorways to Sexual Healing: A Demonstration of Somatic Sexological Body Working for Therapists” - AASECT Mile High Chapter, April 2024